Slow to speak, etc.

One more thing. I try to remember the "quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger." I think I'm slow to show anger but inside it can be a raging inferno especially at work. I have a lot of "holes in my tongue." So, I think I quote this verse everyday. It becomes challenging too b/c when a friend asks for your advice, you want to be slow to speak, yet, they are looking at you like "well, what do you say?" Not the popular response to say, let me think about it and get back to you. Although, this should probably be the case many times b/c it forces both parties to think on it and pray about it to get the right perspective and you know to ask for wisdom (see other posting hee hee). I'm rambling....